Christmas is a magical time of year and I truly believe that. Ever since being a child Christmas has always been the happiest time of year for me. When my husband and I got married we decided to pick traditions from each of our families to keep and the new ones we would start together.
We always crank up Reba’s original Christmas CD while decorating the tree and house. As a kid we would drink eggnog or cherry 7up out of wine glasses but now I tend to just drink wine. And let’s face it I need it with the way decorating goes now.
With two little ones you never know how Christmas decorating is going to workout or how many things will break in the month they are up. We have tons and tons of decorations but only put up the stuff that can be above cabinets and high up on shelves. Each year it seems we are able to put up a little more and the kids listen to us when told to leave it alone (well depending on the day lol)
When we have our second Christmas as parents our oldest was around 14 months so we decided to put one of those octogates for babies around our whole tree. It worked and my son couldn’t reach anything but it made me so sad because it was so ugly. The last two Christmas’s we have taken two large boxes and wrapped them like gifts and then wedged them under the tree so that all the presents underneath can’t be seen or destroyed. This has worked out perfectly for us especially with the tree being in the corner and protected.
Now you know when you think of your Christmas mornings as a kid you were so excited and just wanted to tear through gifts right? Well here is you overwhelm my oldest he shuts down. That is why we usually ask our family for some money instead of ALL the money going to toys. One our kids have tons of toys but two he hates being forced to open gifts. He usually finds one toy normally the first and then he runs away with it and that’s it. My youngest is ok but he still isn’t all into it yet either.
As an adult when you buy gifts for your kids you get so excited to see their faces Christmas morning as they open their toys and shine with excitement, but for us in this house we hold onto the happiness they show everyday and we don’t focus one the one day a year of excitement. We may never have that traditional Christmas mornin where the kids come wake us up wanting to open gifts but we won’t stop trying to build family traditions. We used to avoid so many things because of the fear of how things would go or the fact that doing them would be more about the traditions and not the kids having fun, but now we work hard to do these things anyways.
We are excited to drive around Christmas Eve lookin at lights (whether or not the kids fall asleep) Christmas dinner being more than chicken nuggets (at least for us) and watching Christmas movies (whether the kids sit for them or not) its an amazing time of year!